Betsey Downing & Suzie Hurley joined us this season for their yoga retreat in Mexico and will be coming back with us again in the fall 2012! We sat down with them to find out a little bit more about why yoga and retreats have had such an impact on their lives.
XINALANI: How did you find out about Xinalani Retreat and why did you choose to host your Spirited Women Retreat here?
SH: We heard about it from our friend and fellow Anusara teacher, Marsha Nieland who raved about it!
SH: We heard about it from our friend and fellow Anusara teacher, Marsha Nieland who raved about it!
XINALANI: Your retreat was for “Spirited Women over 45.” What makes your guests so spirited?
SH: They practice Anusara Yoga and have a great attitude and adventurous spirit by looking for the juice in life! (And remaining "juicy" themselves!)
BD: One statement about getting older that I really like is that as we get older we become more of ourselves! The more authentic we become, the more we step into our power, the more we lead from our heart, the more fun life is!
XINALANI: Why did you choose to have a retreat just for women over 45? Are all your retreats for women only?
SH: I also do a retreat in Jamaica each Feb. that's open to both men and women of all ages. We think there's a real need to share our wisdom and life perspectives as we get older. We learn so much from each other, sharing both the challenges and the joys of aging gracefully. We are actually just like fine wines!
BD: I teach trainings and workshops all over the world, but this is the only retreat I offer. I love the group dynamic that happens with all women on a retreat…the ways we share and support each other are wonderful, and the ways we inspire and challenge each other to be our full selves are amazing.
XINALANI: You each were one of the first certified Anusara teachers. What about Anusara yoga caused you to get involved so early on?
SH: It is spiritually based, yet also precise in its alignment details, thus exceptionally therapeutic. My body healed in ways it never could before. And it's more just plain fun than any other system I ever studied. I like to think of it as playfully profound.
BD: Right away Anusara felt different to me… right away it took me into my heart and helped me connect with something bigger than myself. I love the basic message of Anusara is that we are expressing Spirit through our individuality. On the physical level, the balance between flexibility and strength helped me integrate my body in ways I had not experienced in other systems of yoga. I got strong as well as flexible and become more balanced in my poses, and also in my life. I love the emphasis on taking yoga “off the mat and into our daily lives”.
XINALANI: What other styles of yoga did you practice before Anusara? Do you still teach any of these styles?
SH: I studied Ashtanga, Kundalini yoga, Kripalu and Iyengar mainly, teaching a variation of the latter two. I am committed to teaching only Anusara now.
BD: I started out with an eclectic teacher in the 70's who taught no particular style, studied with Joel Kramer, and then Sivananda yoga for a few years, and Iyengar Yoga for many years.
XINALANI: You each have studios in different parts of the country. How did you come together to start doing yoga retreats?
SH: Betsey and I were taking Iyengar classes and workshops and teacher trainings for years together, and then we each opened our own studios (Betsey used to live in Va. so we were much closer), and the retreats just evolved from our friendship.
XINALANI: How many retreats have you done through the years and where?
SH: We've done workshops in Belize, different places in Mexico, in Guatemala, on the Outer Banks of NC, and other places in the States. I've also taught in Costa Rica and Jamaica.
XINALANI: What were you and your guests able to take away from your trip to Xinalani Retreat?
SH: The natural beauty of the environment, the way the wonderful chefs, massage therapists and all the staff went out of their way to nurture us. Jean-Baptiste and his family have created an amazing Eco-Paradise.
BD: And because the retreat is so serene and private, away from the hustle and bustle of regular life, there is time to drop inside to reflect on who we are under the layers. We, and our participants, took that connection and rejuvenation away with us.
XINALANI: What inspires you to keep practicing yoga and to keep teaching?
SH: Anusara Yoga keeps me young and fit and joyful. The longing to know the Divine more and more as myself, and help others do the same is all I've ever wanted to do for the last 30 years or more.
BD: I love how I feel when I practice the poses and meditation ... I would not want to be without those benefits! I love the joy of sharing it with others. Their questions and participation expand our knowledge, understanding, and our hearts!
XINALANI: How has yoga changed your lives?
SH: I think the above answer is the same. Yoga is a spiritual discipline, it is about becoming a disciple of one's heart. When one realizes the heart's deepest longing, there is no more searching, no more wanting, no more clinging. One is totally fulfilled on every level.
BD: I don’t think I would recognize myself if I met my “before-yoga” self now. My expanded ability to give and receive love (one of the major benefits of regular yoga) has transformed who I am on all levels of my life.
XINALANI: Any last words of wisdom for our readers?
SH: There's a great quote from Muktananda's Guru, Nityananda, "The heart is the hub of all sacred places, go there and roam”
BD: Give yourself the gift of receiving yourself fully! That’s what yoga has to offer you.
XINALANI: Thank you ladies and see you in October 2012!





















